Be a Digital Role Model
From the television to the computer to the smartphone,
your day is filled with media. Your Sproutlet's day is,
too.
Set a positive example for your budding technophile with
your own good media habits. Here are five quick and easy
ways:
Go Face-to-Face. Always prioritize active,
social interaction above passive interaction. Visit with a friend
in person. If that's not possible, then opt for a phone call. Text
only when necessary. Young children benefit from observing facial
cues and hearing verbal interaction.
Share Your Values. Your child learns about
your values when you share your thoughts about media choices:
"After I get my work done, I'm going to watch my favorite show. I
like this show because it teaches me how to fix cars. I love shows
that teach me something new."
Give Commentary. Texting and emailing are
silent forms of communication. A young child has little concept of
what you are doing. Help your child understand: "Mommy is in a
meeting. I don't want her phone to make a loud noise, so I'm going
to write some quiet words about our date tonight and send them to
her. Now she knows to meet us at your favorite
restaurant!"
Be Creative. Use technology for productive
means. Demonstrate this to your child. "I'm taking a picture of the
birdhouse we made. When we have a lot of pictures, let's print a
book about the beautiful things we have made
together."
Be Together. Look for ways to make media
more interactive. Sharing a screen is much more interactive than
everyone having their own. Watch television together, compose an
email together or have a video game tournament. Experience media as
a family.
Put It Down. Make eye contact when you
speak. Multitasking is a part of every parent's life, but good
manners should take precedence. When your little one has a
question, put down the phone, turn away from the computer screen or
turn down the volume on the TV.
Put It Away. Just as we put our little ones
to bed, there are times when we should put media to bed. Perhaps
your phone takes a nap at mealtimes. Your computer might go to bed
at dinnertime. Decide as a family when that is. Follow your own
rules and your child will, too.